• You don’t have to agree with how other people behave—and nothing you say or do is going to change them.
  • However, understanding why certain behavior triggers negative feelings for you can help you choose healthier reactions.
  • Try focusing instead on what you want out of the relationship and be honest about mistakes you may have made along the way

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understand-other-people/202108/other-people-are-really-not-your-problem